Monday, 16 December 2013

Find Refuge Through Poems Of Comfort

By Tiffany Gill


Searching for refuge and nestling in the reassuring warmth of a loved ones arms, is assuaging in the midst of darkness. Many people find themselves wanting to be separated from the ones they love during their darkest hour. They often feel it is easier to suffer alone than to bear their anguish on their sleeve. By reading poems of comfort, they are able to see that they are not alone with their pain. They feel comforted that others have walked that path before them. Through their passionate expression, they will begin to receive their own personal healing and growth, one poem at a time.

Feeling the heart felt words, expressed by someone else who has experienced similar pain and suffering somehow seems to make things more bearable. They seem to be able to put into words, the depth of the agony that you have endured. It is almost as if they are taking pen to task with your emotion.

Encompassing your inability to grieve, they begin the process of inner healing. They usually begin with the cause of your distress, whether it is the loss of a job, self worth, the loss of a family pet or a loved one. Perhaps you are still in denial regarding your loss. By allowing yourself to focus on the object of your grief, you allow yourself to feel your loss. You can not truly heal and move on, if you do not allow yourself the ability to grieve.

By allowing yourself to feel your loss, they help you find strength to let go, to continue to live, to strive, to allow yourself to once again begin to live life. Many compositions will allow you to work through your anger and hurt. Once again, they bring out the anguish that is within your soul. Slowly and methodically, allowing you to work through your grief one step at a time.

A sonnet of bargains is one full of emotional pleas for the circumstances to change. If only you could go back and make things different, knowing full well that the bargaining will not change the course of your grief. For that brief moment, it makes it seem almost possible that if you make the right promises, you could change the past and make your pain vanish.

The uniqueness of depressive poetry is that you are alone in your suffering. You may feel that you are alone and that you are clearly the only person who has ever felt devastation such as this. These compositions present the pain of the writer into words that substantiate your depression. Once you feel that you have been understood, you are able to see more clearly the way to work through the obstacles.

Lyrics of acceptance find you in a more responsive place. You find solace in the written word. You have come to the realization that, although you have suffered great loss, your life will continue to move forward. Yes, you will still feel the sting of loss. But, you will also be comforted in knowing that someone else has walked through this same process and has also found their acceptance.

As you wander through the paths of the broken-hearted, gather strength by taking solace in the written word of others. Those who have walked this path in a time before you, have expressed their grief, sorrow, pain, suffering and endurance through the pen. Receiving palliation, succor and restfulness are only a few amenities you will receive when reading poems of comfort.




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